Monday, December 8, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
More Home Pics
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Quinn 's Again Awake



Shakespeare, in describing purgatory in his play Hamlet said those who were in that place were, "Doom'd for a certain term to walk the night, and for the day confined to fast in fires, 'till the foul crimes done in [their] days of nature are burnt and purged away." Perhaps the insane sleepless nights are a kind of purgatory which all parents must suffer through in order to have the joys of children. (God's way of making sure you are really serious about this parenting business.)
We discovered shortly before we left the hospital that Quinn has a cleft pallate. Not knowing much about this, a specialist came to visit us to explain what that meant and what that will mean for Quinn as he grows up. Apparently, this is one of the most common forms of birth defects about 1 in every 600 babies has it. What it means is that there is a hole in Quinn's pallet (roof of his mouth) which connects his nose to his mouth.
It means he cannot nurse like a normal child from the breast; however, is not life-threatning and has a 75% chance of being resolved with a surgery when Quinn is between 6-9 months. It may cause some speech and dental problems later on, but for now we are just happy to have a healthy baby boy. Right now the problem is nutritional. Quinn just needs nutrients and were he to continue to attempt to do this at the breast he would likely use more energy in the attempt than get the nutrients he needs. The solution is apparently to use a special "Pigeon" nipple that costs about $22 a piece.
Since Mer and I believe strongly in the necessity of breast milk but we must bottle feed Quinn we have been doing a lot of research into breast pumps. The problem of breast pumps is that they consume a lot of time. One has to spend a half an hour or more pumping, then another half an hour or more feeding the child (not to mention the regular cleaning of all the valves and do-hickeys that come with it). Effectively this more than doubles the amount of time that is required just to sustain the nutritional needs of this baby (not to mention all the diaper changing, etc. that just is part of having a baby to begin with.) When this feeding is done every two hours you can begin to see why the reference to sleepless purgatory seems more appropriate. Mer deserves a gold star for her efforts. She is the best and most devoted mommy.
(The resources of time and personnel are finite so thus we are in search of the ideal method [optimization routine] to maximize that precious comodity there is all too often little of... sleep!)
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Birthday Boy

You only really have one birthday and this is his. Welcome to the world Quinn David Cory. 6 pounds, 8 ounces. 19.5 inches long. We have pictures for everyone to get to know him.
Labor started at 11:30AM and ended around 5:30PM. No anaesthetics! Mommy is a tough one!
When his water broke he "baptized" the certified nurse/midwife. A giant gush splashed her right in the face. This nursing thing is not for the weak. (I'm just glad I was standing back and to the side of all the action. ) Delivery was smooth. No major complications other than the aforementioned. Mommy and baby are doing just fine.
Here are the pictures. Undoubtedly that is really what you wanted to see anyway. He has really small feet and what looks to be dark curly/wavy hair. If you look really closely you can see that he is perhaps the cutest baby on the face of the earth. (Maybe you can't see that... those glances are perhaps reserved for mommy and daddy... although he is already quite popular in the nursery. He struck up a conversation with one of the nurses and had her rolling on the floor. Maybe someday he will be a comedian in future?)
Monday, November 17, 2008
Patience is a virtue
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Friday, October 31, 2008
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Our First Pumpkin
We took our first family trip to the pumpkin patch. This was exciting because we saw some friends there and many other fun things. Other than goats, sheep, bunnies, chickens and emus we also played in hay. Does fall get any better? We rode a wagon to the pumpkins to pick the perfect one (or two). One of the smart farm workers commented that I already had a pumpkin (meaning my big belly). It is amazing what perfect strangers come up with, especially here in Richmond. We did leave with two medium sized pumpkins and one tired little boy. A job well done.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Another fetal pic
Friday, September 19, 2008
More Home Pictures
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Progress on the Home Front


Hey everyone. Apparently a trained monkey could edit one of these Blog things. So I guess it shouldn't be terribly difficult for me to put a few lines together. Yea, that's right this is the male half of the team and I post items to this blog only once in a blue moon... or is that a lunar eclipse... anyway, not very often.
So here are some pictures of our house. It is finally starting to take shape. Sadly the roof is not fully trussed so you can't even see what the entire roof's shape will fully look like in these pictures. But hopefully there is enough to give you the general idea. There is always more later.
Hopefully things will take better shape in the future... so you can see what it will look like. So far Mer is happy with the progress. We still have a long way to go.

















